B.C. Conservative leader disagrees with candidate’s anti-LGBT remarks, but won’t remove her as candidate - CTV News
TomOkay, I want your take on something: B.C. Conservative leader disagrees with candidate’s anti-LGBT remarks, but won’t remove her as candidate. Go ahead, tell me what you think.
CarolThe part that gets under my skin isn't even the disagreement over the words; it's the decision to keep running her anyway after saying he's against those exact remarks. To me, that "disagree but don't act" move tells queer folks in riding districts to expect their representative will defend the party first and their constituents second. It's not a small signal when leadership claims moral distance while leaving the messenger intact.
TomYou’re framing this as a betrayal of trust, but I’m looking at the political reality behind it—dropping a candidate weeks before an election usually tanks the whole campaign. He’s balancing keeping his base happy without blowing up his own chances to win seats, and sometimes that means swallowing hard rather than making a clean break.
CarolSwallowing hard doesn't fix the problem for the people actually living in that district; they're left waiting for a politician who already signaled they'd pick the party flag over their safety. You can't claim to disagree with anti-LGBT rhetoric while handing the microphone back to the very person spitting it out. That kind of split personality confuses voters more than it protects the campaign.
TomCalling it a split personality gives him too much credit for being confused; he’s just being transparent about where he draws the line. He looked at the math, decided losing a seat hurts more than offending a demographic, and told everyone exactly why he made that call instead of hiding behind vague platitudes. There’s no mystery here, just a clear trade-off he chose to explain publicly.
CarolTransparency sounds nice until the audience realizes he’s protecting his own poll numbers, not our community’s future. Saying “I disagreed” while keeping the candidate active is like shrugging off a slap because you didn’t hold the door open for the person hitting you. Who exactly is supposed to believe that public explanation changes anything for queer residents in that district right now?
TomI hear the frustration, but expecting a party leader to sacrifice a winning seat to send a message to a minority group is asking for martyrdom, not politics. He’s playing the long game for the province, not managing the feelings of one riding district.
CarolPlaying the long game doesn’t work when the immediate damage is happening inside the district today. Queer residents aren’t voting on some abstract provincial strategy; they are choosing between a rep who has already spoken against them and the void. You can’t treat basic safety like a minor inconvenience just to save a few points on a future map.
TomYou keep talking about saving points on a map, but that assumes he’s even close to winning that riding in the first place. If the district is safely Conservative regardless, kicking her costs him zero electoral risk, which makes the refusal look less like pragmatism and more like stubbornness. What does he gain from keeping a liability if the vote count says he’d survive without her?
CarolThe safest assumption is that it is a competitive race, which is exactly why removing a known liability looks worse than keeping one. But your argument hinges on a detail we haven't confirmed yet, and assuming he faced zero cost to test the logic feels like building a case on sand. If the riding is actually safe, his hesitation stops being about math and starts being about ego.
TomI was guessing at the margin there. Even if she’s a liability, swapping candidates mid-campaign often scatters undecided voters rather than consolidating them, so sticking with the familiar face might be the safer bet for holding the line. It’s a messy calculation either way, but calling it pure ego ignores how volatile those last few weeks really get.
CarolScattering undecideds isn't a reason to lock in a representative who actively targets queer families; it just means the party is betting on voter apathy rather than trust. You’re framing retention as stability, but for the people in that district, staying put is what keeps the threat visible and actionable every single day.
TomLocking in a bad actor to punish the party for its mistakes is backwards; you don’t fire the captain because the boat hit a rock. If the goal is removing that specific threat, the most effective move is getting a better candidate elected, not demanding the current one be swapped out before the fight even begins.
CarolWaiting to fix the problem after the election means accepting years of harm from that one candidate. You can’t tell queer families their daily reality matters less than the procedural purity of the campaign timeline. The party gets to choose whether to act now or apologize later, but the community lives through whichever choice they make.
TomThat’s a real cost, but the B.C. leader isn’t forced to pick a perfect candidate just to soothe the pain; he’s trying to keep the machinery running while the opposition scrambles. Kicking her doesn’t erase the remarks or change how people feel, it just leaves the district exposed during the worst possible time.
CarolLeaving the district exposed helps no one, especially not the queer families watching a known adversary hold their seat. The leader thinks silence preserves the machine, but for those voters, doing nothing is itself a statement that their safety is negotiable. He can keep her name on the ballot all he wants, but he cannot un-ring the bell he let ring.
TomYou’re treating his refusal to swap her out as a verdict on queer safety, when it’s actually just a tactical decision about electoral exposure in a specific B.C. riding. Until we know if that district is truly swing-voter territory, your argument rests on the idea that he’s prioritizing the machine over human dignity, which he might very well be doing for purely pragmatic reasons. Stop projecting a moral failing onto what could just be cold, hard political arithmetic.
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