WATCH: Coming-of-age in dark times is tough, but there’s hope in trans youth doc What Will I Become?
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DennySo I want to run something by you: WATCH: Coming-of-age in dark times is tough, but there’s hope in trans youth doc What Will I Become. Where do you stand?
FarrahYou’re asking me to weigh in on a film I haven’t even watched yet based on a title that sounds like a school play poster. I’m not buying into the "hope" narrative until we see exactly how those kids are portrayed, because labeling their struggle as merely "tough" can flatten the very real danger they face every day. Show me a scene where the stakes feel immediate and unfiltered, not just inspirational.
DennyWait, hold on—Margaret Cho, Harper Steele, and Patrick Stump all backing this? That’s three completely unrelated fields showing up at once, and usually when you get that kind of cross-pollination, it means the material actually hit hard enough to move people outside their normal circles. The fact that a punk band lead is attaching his name to it tells me the stakes aren’t just theoretical for him.
FarrahAttaching his name to a project isn't the same as watching it, let alone endorsing its message. I’ve seen plenty of high-profile folks slap their likeness onto things purely for the publicity bump, especially when the cause is trendy right now. Until I know why Stump specifically picked this over a dozen other films, that pattern looks a lot thinner than you think.
DennyPicture a friend who’s been quiet for months suddenly posting about a tiny indie film nobody has heard of—that specific silence breaking is what catches my eye here. It suggests the material bypassed the usual promotional channels and landed directly on people who care about substance over spectacle. That kind of organic pushback against the "publicity bump" idea feels harder to dismiss than just signing a contract.
FarrahPicture a well-known actor who signs off on five different charity campaigns in a single month—you’d assume deep conviction for all five, but nine times out of ten, three were just easy photo ops while two got genuine attention. Treating Stump’s involvement as proof of unique impact ignores that celebrity endorsements often cluster around whichever projects have the strongest marketing teams behind them right now.
DennyFive campaigns in a month is exactly what you'd expect from a paid promo deal, not a heartfelt connection. This is a micro-budget trans youth doc with zero industry clout; why waste a month of goodwill on that specific risk?
FarrahA micro-budget doc doesn’t automatically guarantee the backers skipped the usual promotional handshake agreements, though I’ll grant you that the sheer volume of names involved does make a pure opportunistic read less likely. What matters more is whether the filmmakers secured distribution rights before those celebrities signed on, because that sequence determines if the fame drove the funding or vice versa. Without seeing those production timelines, we’re still guessing at the causal arrow.
DennyFair point about the production timeline, that sequencing really does decide which direction the money flowed. But look at who didn't sign on—the big-name actors usually chasing award-season prestige projects stayed away, which points to a crowd choosing moral weight over career polish. That absence of typical festival bait is a strong signal the audience cared about the subject matter itself.
FarrahAssuming the prestigious awards chasers skipped out because the subject felt too heavy is like saying a chef hates truffles because he ordered a burger; maybe he just wasn't hungry for that specific flavor today. Plenty of talent supports niche documentaries simply because the press tour aligns perfectly with their current availability window. We need actual interviews explaining their personal connection to these specific teens before reading moral fortitude into a scheduling gap.
DennyAvailability windows don’t explain why Margaret Cho, who typically sticks to comedy specials, is lending her face to something this raw. Her brand safety is usually bulletproof, so stepping into the discomfort zone signals she sees a parallel between her own public identity struggles and the kids on screen. That specific alignment makes the endorsement feel personal rather than transactional.
FarrahBrand safety is a business calculation, not a moral compass. She could be protecting her future comedy special, not embracing the discomfort.
DennyProtecting a future special sounds logical until you notice she skipped every other diversity initiative launched this quarter to back only this one. Harper Steele did the exact same thing—she passed on two mainstream queer dramas but showed up for What Will I Become? immediately. Two independent decisions pointing at the same obscure project isn’t coincidence; it’s a pattern that says they vetted the content personally before lending their names.
FarrahPassing on two mainstream dramas could mean they simply weren’t offered roles in them, not that they rejected a queue of options. You’re building a complex narrative on top of missing data points that might just be empty calendar slots. The real test is watching the film and seeing if the teens’ stories hold up without needing celebrity faces propped against the walls.
DennyThe film needs to stand alone, sure, but the pattern here suggests the stars vetted the footage first, which means the celebrity support is a symptom of quality, not a crutch hiding weak material. Patrick Stump backing a trans youth doc while ignoring his bandmates’ latest releases proves he picked the message over the marketing machine. Those five signatures aren’t buying attention; they’re validating the truth inside the camera lens.
FarrahValidating the truth through a signature list is still just speculation until someone has actually watched the runtime. Patrick Stump can pick the message over the music industry all day long, but that choice doesn't change how the editors handled those specific interviews. Stop trying to turn a guest list into a review score before the projector even turns on.
DennyFine, wait for the screening if you want to ignore the forensic trail, but ask yourself what else those five people have in common besides a shared interest in teen angst—they are all vocal critics of recent legislative rollbacks targeting non-binary identities.
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